One day, a monk decides to meditate alone, away from his monastery. He takes his boat out to the middle of the lake, moors it there, closes his eyes, breathes normally and begins his meditation. After a few hours of undisturbed silence and in a deep meditative state, he suddenly feels the bump of another boat colliding with his own pretty hard. With his eyes still closed, he senses his anger rising and his face turns almost red with fury. By the time he opens his eyes, he is ready to scream at the boatman who dared disturb his meditation.
But when he opens his eyes, he sees itβs an empty boat that had probably got untethered and floated to the middle of the lake not knowing whether there was another boat floating by. At that moment, the monk achieves self-realization and understands that the anger is within him, it merely needs the bumps of an external object to provoke it out of him.
From then on, whenever he comes across someone who irritates him or provokes him to anger, he reminds himself, βThe other person is merely an empty boat. The anger is within me. It is not outside. I have to understand from where my anger is coming.β Take time for introspection and search for your answers within yourself. Learn from your mistakes and be kind and gentle to whomever you come across in your life. Empty boat is simply a famous and fabulous metaphor. Its value lies in its implementation.
Every aspect of our lives needs to be reflected and contemplated through the lens of Timeless Wisdom. Being content and grateful are the keys to living a life free from anger and bitterness. Be a Light unto Yourself.
Such an awesome story… lots of empty boats out there who have no one to guide them, you are so right, we should not allow them to steal our joy
LikeLiked by 2 people
Yes Denise I completely agree with you. Thank you so much for your valuable words. Take care and stay safe dear.
LikeLike
Thanks and same to you Kamal
LikeLike
Welcome Denise.
LikeLiked by 1 person
An excellent example of how easily we get triggered by empty vessels.. π β€
LikeLiked by 4 people
Yes I completely agree with your valuable words, Sue. We need to be firm in ourselves and not get swayed by others. The story of the empty boat was ideal. Thanks a lot. Much love and light to you dear.
LikeLiked by 1 person
You are welcome Kamal, and lovely to be catching up with a few posts today….. Lots of love β€
LikeLike
Thank you Sue. Lots of Love and Hugs to you too.
LikeLiked by 1 person
β€ β€ β€
LikeLike
πππβ£οΈβ£οΈβ£οΈ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Quite a foolish monk to go on meditation on the river. Common sense is essential in all what one does.
Also one should not put God to the test
LikeLiked by 2 people
There is nothing what anyone does, Joe. Each to his own and why would one put God to the test. God is in everyone and in everything. He knows what he is doing with each and everyone.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I love this, Kamal. It’s a wonderful reminder that our emotions belong to us and are not only within our control, but worth understanding. Great post. π
LikeLiked by 3 people
Yes Diana everything emanates from us there is nothing from outside. We have to understand and control our emotions at all times. Thank you so much for your valuable words. Take care and stay safe at all times dear.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you for your truth… It’s a refreshing concept to reflect the on. π
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes Morag I completely agree with you. It is all in us anger, hatred, goodness, joyousness. The story of the empty boat was perfect. Thank you so much. Much love and hugs dear.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes, no one can make you angry unless you allow it to happen!
LikeLike
True and everything is in us. Thanks ππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Great wisdom here Kamal, we need to understand and own all our emotions and actions … we are responsible for them all!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes I completely agree with your valuable words, Kate. We are responsible for all our good as well as bad in life and this story was so apt. Thanks so much. Love and hugs to you dear.
LikeLiked by 1 person
my pleasure precious!
LikeLike
β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈπππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
This is easily my favorite story to be reminded of repeatedly. We hold so much within us that is just waiting to be triggered. The only hope is to keep cultivating in a way that whatever emerges serves something.
LikeLiked by 2 people
Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your valuable feedback. This story is an eye opener to us and shows that everything is in us. We are our own enemies as well as goodness too. Thanks a lot dear. Love and light to you β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
LikeLiked by 1 person
We are our own enemies as well as goodness too – so true π you are very welcome.
LikeLike
Thank you dearππ»ππ»ππ»ππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Wow!! Your words not only came to me in a personal matter, but I can also relate your words to the anger and bitterness that is everywhere today. Incredible post, Kamal. Absolutely precious and I thank you! xo
LikeLiked by 2 people
True and agree totally with your valuable words Amy. Everywhere there is anger and hatred but this story tells us how we need to see life in its entirety. Thank you so much. Take care and stay safe πππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
I really love this story. An important lesson for us to learn. We should use more time to think and re think instead of reacting very quickly.
LikeLiked by 2 people
True and agree totally with your valuable words Rupali. We have to think and reflect before we open our mouths to react to any situation. Thank you so much. This story is an eye opener. Take care and stay safe β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Perfect and simple life lesson.
LikeLiked by 1 person
True ππ»ππ»ππ»ππ» Thanks dear Bella
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thats a good way to look at those bumps. (K)
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes Marta I completely agree with you. Thanks a lot ππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
This is so true Kamal. We react so soon without even knowing whether it was reasonable or not. Just a few moment of introspection clears up mind and soul.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes Deeksha we all are like this I think it is a sage only who knows how to keep his feelings in peace and happiness and not react at all. This story is an eye opener to us how we need not react. Thank you so much.ππππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Wonderful story, Kamal. As myself, when I get frustrated in a situation, I try to remind myself, that it’s a all within me, the rising anger is just test laid out for me, well that happens only if I recognize it before the anger arises, with much luck I realize this, sometimes. Thanks to you, from now I will call it ” An empty boat”
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes absolutely true and I too practice my anger or whatever negative feelings by this story understanding that there is no one but me in everything. Thank you so much for your valuable feedback Cornelia. These stories are eye openers. Much love and light to you πππππ
LikeLike
Thank you my spiritual friend, Kamal, for your valuable response. Much Love to you. Wish you a great weekend
LikeLike
You are always welcome dear Cornelia. Much love and hugs to you πππππ
LikeLike
As always your posts reflect a wisdom that is unmatchable. Loved it.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you so much for your valuable feedback Moushmi. ππππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
I have read this earlier too and read it once more today. Can never have enough reminders of it. Thanks for the share Kamal. πStay safe and be blessed π
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you so much Deepika for your valuable words. These stories are always better to read and get to know how to lead our lives.
LikeLike
Woah, profound story.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks Jude.
LikeLike
My pleasure
LikeLike
ππΌππΌππΌππ»ππ»ππ»ππ»
LikeLike
This is such an awesome story Kamal…your stories are really filled with important life lessons…you never failed to amaze meπππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you so much for your kind words Mich. These stories are eye openers and tell us nothing but the truth. Take care and stay safe dearππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
πππ
LikeLike
πππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
This is very true, Kamal. Thank you for the reminder and have a lovely weekend π€
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you always dear Robbie and you too have a wonderful weekend. Love and hugs to you.
LikeLike
Yes Kamal, once we learn to pause and think about the cause or the source of it, it becomes game play to control it. Nice story that illustrates the fact.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes Sunith I completely agree with your valuable feedback. These stories are eye openers in themselves. Thanks so much ππΌππΌππΌπππ
LikeLike
What a fantastic message, a way for peaceful living
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your valuable words Meenakshi. A wonderful analogy for a peaceful life. Thank you so much. Take care and stay safe β€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
LikeLike
ππ»ππ»ππ»β€οΈ
LikeLike
ππππππ
LikeLike
Sometimes, the saying goes, that we are own enemy and the empty boats story is a good metaphor. Happy to reblog this here for others to enjoy as well.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes I completely agree with you Zaza. The story of an empty boat was a profound metaphor. Thank you for your kind gesture ππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Great story that truly spoke to me.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you so much. This story was an eye opener πππππ
LikeLike
Reblogged this on scribeforlove.wordpress.com and commented:
Sometimes, as the saying goes, we can be our own worst enemy. Your story is a good metaphor and worthy of a re-blog here, thank you.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your valuable feedback dear Zaza. We can be our worst enemies or our best friend, everything and everyone is us. Thank you so much for your reblogging. Love and hugs to you dear ππππππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Reblogged this on bodyandsoulnourishmentblog and commented:
What a perfect lesson to keep in our minds and to remain mindful each day! Thank you!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your valuable words Amira. A great story to tell ourselves how to live in life and not blame anyone but ourselves. Thank you so much for reblogging. Much love and light to you dear ππππππ
LikeLike
I am never surprised anymore, when I read something or come across something that I need to read or hear at that particular moment. I know He works in mysterious ways and this post was a reminder of something I am struggling with currently and have been asking for guidance on. Blessings to you!
LikeLiked by 1 person
He is always there with us every moment of our lives we fail to recognise him in our midst. These stories are eye openers for all of us. Thank you so much. Love and light to you πππππππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
words of wisdom! One can attain inner peace when they practice not just read them. But reading them often proves to be utilized!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your valuable words Smitha. We have to practice what we read for understanding who we really are πππππππ
LikeLike
Kamal, this is a great story and Iβll keep in mind those empty boats if I ever start to feel irritated and annoyed! As always accompanied by an evocative image.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thank you so much dear Annika for your valuable feedback and yes a profound story to remember at all times. Take care and stay safe πππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Great Wisdom Kamal dear friend.. Our happiness begins and ends from within.. So we have to Watch carefully and dive deep within.. Keep writing dear πΉπβ₯οΈπ·
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes everything is within us so why then get angry and miserable unnecessary. Thank you so much for your valuable feedback. Love and light to you.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Same to you dear friend Kamal. Kind regards πβ€οΈ
LikeLike
πππππππβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈβ€οΈ
LikeLiked by 1 person
this post was brilliant!!! thank you for the wisdom. wishing you & yours a lovely holiday season & new year, Kamal β€
LikeLike
You are always welcome dear da-AL. Happy Holidays to you and your family too. Love and light πππππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Hi Kamal,
Came across this post of yours Reblogged by Amira.
As mum r.I.p would say βGod works in mysterious waysβ.
I felt the need to make contact with Amira again as had been a long time.
This Reblogged post of hers was one of her recent ones and has arrived just at the right time for me.
I will revisit and also Amiraβs blog.
Hope all is well with you πβ€οΈπ
LikeLike
Thanks a lot dear Margaret for your valuable feedback and I agree with your mom, God always works in mysterious ways. Lots of love and light πππ
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yes Kamal, Mum r.I.p had so many sayings and I find myself more recently referring to them (humourous ones also) πππ A more poignant one which springs to mind for present circumstances :- βThereβs something coming on the world we donβt know anything aboutβ
LikeLike
Yes Margaret no one knows what is coming we are living in an uncertain world where we don’t know what is going to happen the next moment.
LikeLiked by 1 person