A young lady sat in a bus with her child going to Crompton Heights. At the next stop a very loud and grumpy old lady came and sat beside her. Though there was no space as the bus was pretty full, she squeezed into the seat next to the young lady and bumped her with her numerous bags. The bags were so heavy, they were all over the young lady, but she never said a word. The old woman even muttered to herself, though in a loud voice for others to hear, ‘See, I am so old and haggard, this young lady has no manners. She can easily stand and give me a place to sit, instead she is nicely sitting relaxed. I had to literally squeeze myself and make myself comfortable. These youngsters are not at all bothered in taking care of the old citizens.’ So saying she made more room for herself.
The young lady was listening to her and she was not feeling irritated at all. She was as calm and unruffled as a mother-hen. Instead she was quietly reading her book. In the meantime, all this drama was being seen by the person sitting on the other side of the young lady who was very upset and was seething inside. He had to say something. He asked her, ‘Dear Ma’am, I am watching for quite some time what is happening between you two. With no fault of yours, why are you not saying something to this old lady and keeping quiet as if nothing has taken place. I am surprised that though she has burdened you with her heavy bags, it is she who needs to apologize and say sorry, instead she is criticizing you for nothing.’
The young lady responded with a smile: ‘It is not necessary to be rude or argue over something so insignificant, the journey together is so short. I get off at the next stop’. This response deserves to be written in golden letters:
‘It is not necessary to argue over something so insignificant, our journey together is so short.’
If each one of us realized that our time here is so short, that to blacken it with quarrels, not forgiving others, discontentment and a fault finding attitude would be a waste of time and energy.
Did someone break your heart? Be calm, the journey is so short. Did someone bully, cheat or humiliate you? Be calm, forgive, the journey is so short. Whatever troubles anyone brings us, let us remember that our journey together is so short. No one knows the duration of this journey. No one knows when their stop will come. Our journey together is so short.
Let us cherish friends and family. Let us be respectful, kind and forgiving to each other. Let us be filled with gratitude and gladness. If I have ever hurt you, I ask for your forgiveness. If you have ever hurt me, you already have my forgiveness. After all, dear friends: OUR JOURNEY TOGETHER IS SO SHORT.
Such a wonderful story with an excellent point! Indeed, our journey together is rather short. Blessings to you and thank you for sharing this.
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Welcome and Thanks Jonathan and yes why get into small insignificant arguments and fights for what. Take his blessings and make others happy.
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So very true… If only we each would live this way, our world would truly be a better, more peaceful environment as God desires.
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Yes absolutely and when He has made us from Him, Jonathan who not live his world which is so beautiful and that is what he has given us but we humans want to dig our noses everywhere and we kill ourselves only through insignificant things.
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You are quite right!
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Yes.
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WOW – is that a story? It sounds like a real incident because there are definitely people like that in society although very rare.
This is awesome, Kamal!
It is so true – I can stress this enough!
Our lives are very short and unpredictable – you are so right to say that it is useless to quarrel and argue – it is best to forgive and make the rest of our lives free from anger. What a great post!
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Thanks so much dear Doni and I knew you would love this story and yes true facts of our lives where we meet people like the old lady and we all know only how to react but it is so nice to be quiet and not give importance to insignificant things to live a peaceful life full of joy and happiness. Yes life is so short that it is just the breath that is moving suppose our breath says bye I do not want to breath in this body anymore than all is over and so such stories are eye openers.
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My pleasure, Kamal! I got inspired by your latest poem that I wrote my own (well it is not the best poem, doesn’t even rhyme – guess it is more of a trail of thoughts!) I would appreciate it if you inspect it and give it a honest opinion 😛
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Oh wow Doni will definitely do so and this is a nice way to work do let me know what other topic you would like me to post will work on it and work together it feels nice too.
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Thank you Kamal! 😀
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welcome
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Beautiful narration..💛
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Thanks Anji
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Sweet little story with so much to teach. Life is too short to waste in these trivialities. Really nice story.
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Thanks for your great comments and yes so true they really teach u how to live
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Dear Kamal, I dont know why my word press reader doesnt show your post. Anyway, ahhh this sooooo beautiful so true, it melted my heart. There are many who blame us for their bad behaviour …oh that young lady is so right.. choose your battles and you will soon realise none of it is worth it. A batyle is a form of ego and ego never helps anyone. Love this post… made my day.
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Thanks Bella for such wonderful and true words even I find sometimes posts going in spam folder so one has to retrieve and write. Ya that lady was so calm and positive and we really face people like that old one in our life, the thing is to be calm and focussed. Yes a battle of ego never helped anyone.
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I love reading your inspirational posts Kamal. They are a beautiful reminder for all to be a better and evolved person !!👍👍
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Thanks so much dear Radhika and yes these little inspirational stories means so much for all of us to get motivated.
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Golden words of wisdom. So true and wonderful ❤ As always, your stories are the best Kamal 😉
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Thanks for the beautiful comment Psy and yes wonderful story
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Excellent! 😉👍
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Welcome friend
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Letting go is not that easy, but yes, we can achieve that state..
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Yes absolutely true and we have to try our level best cause then we feel the burden
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Ya.. let us try
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Yes why not give it a shot and see the difference, nothing is wrong make our Journey that is short a great journey. Have a great day Akhila.
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Wish you too a great day..
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Thanks dear.
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The story gives us a message that if we follow this world would be a better place 👏👏
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Yes absolutely true and the world would be a great place to stay. Thanks for your great comments.
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A brilliant compact story with such a deep message. Good job 👍
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Thanks Sakshi for your lovely comments and yes absolutely agree. Journey of our life is so short why not enjoy it to its ultimate.
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Oh! Such a love;y message.
Our journey together is so short! I agree!!!
And we petty humans keep fighting over all petty matters. Bu just avoiding such instances may keep us jovial and positive.
Beautiful share dear.
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Thanks Moushmi for your lovely comments and yes we are like that and do all these stupid things and for what when our journey is so short. Yes we need to be happy and jovial and make others happy too.
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A lovely post, the ladies response hit it on the nail.
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Thanks and yes so calm and composed and so true Journey is so short why fight and for what.
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Precisely, sometimes ignoring the drama helps.
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Yes absolutely and you feel so nice and blissful too.
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Yes very much so and you hold no regrets either.
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Yes for sure.
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I agree.
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Only ageing does not make sense, if we are not growing wisdom with number. 🙂 A very nice read and a beautiful message.. 🙂
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Thanks Prakash for your great comments and yes so true wisdom can come at any age and when our journey is short why worry be friends with people that u meet
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Amen and well said!!!
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Thanks for your great comments.
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These golden words of wisdom shall change something within me forever..
“Our journey together is definitely short” wow!
Thank you so much for this!
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Thanks so much for your great words and I feel so happy to know that it has such a great impact on you and for sure our Journey is so short that we would not know when the time is right or when we have to go so it is so nice to be happy and joyful rather than bickering and quarelling. Happy day to you.
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That is so true. Life is short when you think about it!
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Yes absolutely true Jon and then why can’t we be happy and cheerful. Thanks
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Your welcome Kamal!
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Thanks Jon
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A beautiful story Kamal – I enjoyed it an can think of an incident that happened today which makes this relateable.
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Wow Chevvy u need to share this story.
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Oh it’s just a mistake I made that got someone really upset and it was bothering me. I can’t undo the mistake, but I have offered a reasonable alternative solution. Nevertheless, I was still feeling bad about it when I read your story. I took comfort in the moral of your story 😀
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Thanks dear and it happens with all of us as we r all humans but we need to then check ourselves too.
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What a beautiful story, and such an important message. We should all remember that phrase in times of frustration and anger. I love that!
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Thanks so much for your beautiful words and yes our journey is so short why waste with anger and frustration when we all can be happy and make others happy.
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Tamara could you also tell me how I have written my poem on A Deck of Cards would love to have your great comments on them too. Thanks.
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Golden words! Wonderful Kamal! Going to use it in my poem! 🙂
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Wow Meenakshi thanks for your golden words and am waiting for your lovely poem. Meenakshi you did not like my little sexy poem cause you just liked it, just joking do not take it seriously.
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Hi Kamal! I guess I missed it will read again! I will let you know as soon as I write my new poem on your beautiful words! 🙂
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Oh thanks dear cause I really like your beautiful feedback and it actually makes me happy to write more. Don’t worry dear Meenakshi take your time. Will be waiting for your new poem and yes our Journey is so short so why can’t we make it more enjoyable. Happy day to you.
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Such a nice thought! Same here Kamal! I too wait for your feedback on my posts. You are one of the oldest friend here and it means a lot to me. 💖
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Yes absolutely Meenakshi and feels so nice to be friends though we have never seen each other nor talked with each other but sometimes u feel so much rapport with few bloggers. I too feel the same way, so nice to have you as a friend. Love you and stay happy always.
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You too and stay connected alwayssss
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Yes dear for sure.
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Life is short, but not too short ha ha. I can somehow feel it’s expansion in winters, you must experience it too.
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Thanks and yes but we in Mumbai that is in India hardly experience winters we hardly wear warm clothes.
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Oh, you must take vacations then? There must be great mountain sides nearby. Kashmir I hear is also cold and beautiful.
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Yes absolutely true
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Oh my!!! This one spoke volumes: of love, of hope, of friendship, of peace….. YET “our journey together is so short.” Thanks for this
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Thanks 🙏 for your great words and yes every bought was inspiring.
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Thanks for sharing this..it is soo true in this journey of life..some day we also have to leave this body…
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Thanks Kalyan for your great words and definitely we all have to leave this body and go to where we really belong our journey here is very short.
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Wow! I’ve never heard of anything like that!Compare to mt wo2arlkcep30; and, well, I’m hoping the mere mention of breast will be enough to let me go full time from home.Christa the BabbyMama recently posted..Twitter:
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Thanks 🙏
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