I once asked a very successful woman that I met at one of the Office parties, to share her secret with me. She smiled so beautifully and said to me in all confidence:
–‘I started succeeding when I started leaving small fights which did not give meaning to my life for small fighters. These fights did not bother me at all.
–I stopped arguing with those who gossiped about me. These people did not matter to me one bit. I kept away from gossip mongers who do nothing but gossip about people.
–I stopped fighting for attention from the people I associated with. It did not bother me whether anyone liked me or not. I was totally detached from flattery.
–I stopped fighting with my in-laws, my boss, my colleagues. There was not much to talk about. I wanted my peace of mind.
–I stopped fighting to meet people’s expectation of me. It was not required. I was doing whatever I wanted for my own satisfaction.
–I stopped fighting to please everyone. It is a hopeless cause and in return I suffered, as it is of no use pleasing others as people are never satisfied. I simply wanted calmness for myself. I left such fights for those who have nothing else to fight about.
And I finally started fighting for:
My vision, my dreams, my ideas and my destiny. The day I gave up on small fights and unnecessary quarrels is the day I started becoming successful and so much more content in my life. Some fights are not worth your time or energy, choose what you fight for wisely to live happily and cheerfully.
Confident walking is more successful than confused running. Follow no one but learn from everyone. Brave concept is “Do or Die”. Practical concept is “Do before you Die” and Winner’s concept is “Don’t Die until you Do it.” Live your life and forget your age.
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Thanks a lot dear Michael 😊
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Very wise word. Thanks for sharing, Kamal! I hope you are fine, and enjoy life. Best wishes, Michael
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You are always welcome dear Michael. Yes all good i shifted from Mumbai to Pune Maharashtra which is a lovely place with great climate and a great society. Lots of blessings 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
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A good lesson to practice in life Kamal. One should always choose their battles wisely. Thanks for sharing ❤️
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Yes I completely agree with you Radhika. Always welcome dear ❣️❣️
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Great advice Kamal! Thanks for sharing
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You are always welcome dear Sadje 🙏🏻😊
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🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
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Thanks Sadje.
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Wonderful wisdom and reminders. Thanks Kamal.
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You are always welcome dear Brad. I completely agree with you. Lots of blessings 🙏🏻🙏🏻
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I agree with all these pearls of wisdom Kamal, each one is precious! Thanks for sharing! 🤗🥰
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You are most welcome dear Balroop and yes all of them are words of wisdom. Thanks a lot.
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Excellent tips to be successful in life, Kamla!!👍
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Thanks a lot for your kind words, Indira.
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Hi Kamal, this is such valuable advice, I have really gained from reading it. Thank you, I am going to really try to give up those small fights.
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Yes same here too Robbie. Live a peaceful and healthy life. Thanks a lot for your valuable feedback 😊🙂😊
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Such wise words, Kamal, and a wonderful advice! Thanks for sharing. ❤️
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You are always welcome dear Punam. Thanks a lot 😊😊
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Oh yes… it took me a long time to tick off the list and breathe in my own light❤️ IAM successful just by being me😍 sending love to you dear karma😍
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Thankful for your valuable feedback dear Barbara. I completely agree with you 😊😊😊😊😊
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This is so beautiful and so valuable Kamal! A treasured gift for all of us like you!
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Much appreciated dear Cindy and I completely agree with you. Thanks a lot for your valuable feedback 😊☺️😊
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You’re so welcome Kamal. Keep writing and blessing us. 💖💖
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Thanks Cindy same to you too. You too keep on blessing us with your writings. Lots of love and hugs 🤗❤️🤗❤️
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You’re so welcome. You too Kamal.. I just posted ha.. and you too my friend!
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💖💖💖😊😊😊 take care and stay safe
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This is so true, Kamal. I admit, it is easier said than done. But that doesn’t change how important is it to try and live this way. Hugs on the wing.
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Yes Teagan I completely agree with you it is very difficult but not that we can’t try. Thanks a lot for your valuable feedback. Hugs to you too 🤗🤗🤗
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I love this! Thank you, Kamal!
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Most welcome dear Michele❤️❤️❤️
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We spend far too much time worrying about what other people think. ( K)
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Yes I completely agree with your words Marta. Thanks a lot 😊😊
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Marvelous ma’am, thank you so much for this great share 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻🙏🏻
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You are always welcome dear Meenakshi. Much appreciated 👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
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Great post Kamal and oh so true!! Thanks for sharing, it made me stop and think !!
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Always welcome Kirt and I agree with you totally. Take care and stay safe
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Precious wisdom! Thank you, Kamal. xo
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Most welcome dear Amy. Have a great day 😊
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I love all of these, Kamal. Such great advice, thank you for sharing! ❤️
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You are always welcome dear Lauren. Much appreciated 👍🏽
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Excellent Kamal…. So true are these words. Once we realise we need not compete, or need labels to define us, or waste our Energy on how we are perceived.. It only matters how we perceive ourselves how we interact with our own inner BE-ing… How we love and respect ourselves enough not to put our energy into the circumstances stated in your post.. Only then do we learn, as we love ourselves enough to treat ourselves with love and respect…
And when we do exactly that… Then nothing else matters…
Many thanks for sharing your wisdom here Kamal….
Much love my friend ❤
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Thankful for your valuable feedback dear Sue and I completely agree with you. Lots of love and blessings 💕💕💕
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You are most welcome ❤
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Happy weekend 😊😊😊
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I love this. It is the true definition of spiritual maturity. It sounds simple, but is not easy. It is, however, well worth the effort to attain that state.
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Yes I completely agree with you. Thanks a lot 😊😊😊
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you never failed to amaze me with your practical and insightful wisdom Kamal.
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Thanks a lot for your kind words dear Mich 🤗😊🙏🏻
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Such incredible words of wisdom!! Thanks for sharing…reinforced an issue I have been dealing with! Blessings!!
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Thankful for your valuable feedback dear Kirt. Much appreciated 👍🏽👍🏽
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