–One of our bodies strongest muscle; if used thoughtlessly, can create a huge struggle in our lives. Biceps nor triceps; it’s our Tongues that can hurt or make amends.
–Words are very powerful. They can cut through our hearts and lungs. Remember, you may be great at eloquence and persuasiveness; but pause, think, speak, should be the sequence before you utter anything that comes to your tongue.
–Do not hurt another person, even if they have caused a grave upheaval in your life. Before you open your mouth to give him or her your choicest outbursts, just silence your mind and think whether it will serve any good to anyone.
–Let not anger, pride or ego take over your senses. The consequences are very dangerous. It can harm you for life and you can lose your family and friends forever. The key is to learn to forgive and not carry any guilt whatsoever.
–It’s of utmost importance to use this muscle of our body, but one must use it with great care. Once your words are said, you can never take them back because they are like a bullet that you can compare them with.
Expand Love. Make watering your seeds of Happiness a daily practice. Feel a peaceful joy inside, your words will then only Reflect Love. The Universe is taking care of everything that is there.
Wonderful post Kamal . A muscle which have the power to mould things anyway according to its choice. Use of it must be done carefully.
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Yes and that is our tongue that can make us or break us in minutes. Thank you so much dear Tanvir for your valuable words.
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My pleasure Kamal 😇
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Welcome so much dear Tanvir.
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So important what you mentioned here Kamal..some people think that they are strong because they can hurt people with bad words and bad implications..they do not know that they are so weak..the tongue is created for a noble purpose..we will be asked for every word we say..
Tongue is created to build and not to destroy..Have a great Wednesday Kamal🙏⚘⚘
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Yes Sohair our tongue is not made to hurt anyone but learn to speak gentle and kind words of love and happiness. Thank you so much for these lovely and valuable words. You too have a great Wednesday.
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This is a great reminder. There are many times when I have to think twice before opening my mouth to speak and, under most circumstances, I’m glad I did.
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Thanks so much Lesley for your valuable feedback and yes same here I too would not want to hurt anyone with my words. Have to think twice before I say anything.
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As usual, great message here!!
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Thanks dear Indira.
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Wonderful reminders Kamal. I try to use my words to uplift and bring peace and kindness to the world.
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Same with me too, Brad. Why create unnecessary tensions for everyone. Our words need to bring peace and happiness to whomsoever we meet. Thanks so much for your valuable feedback.
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Agreed.
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Thanks Brad have a lovely day dear.
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The expression ‘cut to the quick’ is pretty accurate. It’s so easy to wound with words.
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Yes Jo, I completely agree with your words. Our words can mar someone or make someone happy. That is the power of words. Thanks so much.
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words can uplift but can also cause deep traumatic harm … timely warning thanks Kamal!
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Yes dear Kate and so much truth in these times of turmoil. Thanks so much for your valuable feedback.
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An important and true post, beautifully written. The tongue can both heal and harm. You are so right in that we always should be sure that the words we utter are those who give warmth and love.
miriam
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Yes absolutely true and that is our Tongue we need to keep our words in check before uttering words that hurt people. Thanks so much Miriam for your valuable feedback.
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So much truth here, Kamal. Life and death lie in the power of the tongue. Message that everyone needs to hear!!
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Yes Amy our life and death lies in our words and how we let it out with our Tongue. Thanks so much for your valuable feedback.
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It’s a very powerful too, best used wisely. Excellent post!
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Thank you so much Parker for your valuable feedback. I too completely agree with your words.
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A wise post to watch our words, our tongues. Even when we have been hurt we have to wise in our response, there is too much at stake to lose. Great post. Great life lessons. 👏
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Yes I completely agree with your valuable words, Bella. Our words r very sharp at times and we have to learn a lot how to speak lovingly and kindly. Yes great life lessons for all of us. Thanks so much,👌👌😊😊😊😊😊
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That muscle of our tongue is controlled by our mind. Our mind steps in first to decide what to say or what not to say, followed by our emotions. We all have to be aware how much power our words have, ever saying kind words to each other is our most prominent goal every day
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Yes completely true and agree totally with your valuable words, Cornelia. Our mind needs to be in control first and then not speak our words from our tongue that will hurt the other person. Thanks so much🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌
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I have been trying to count to 10 before speaking when I am cross, Kamal. It is easy to say things that can never been unsaid.
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Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your words, Robbie and then the words too will not come out rudely because we have paused and thought to ourselves. Thanks for your kind words ❤️❤️❤️
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Indeed – the power of life & death truly are in the tongue. What we speak, we create. Our words hold more power than we could ever imagine. When the reality we are living in is one we don’t like and don’t recognize – it might be wise to see what we’ve been believing & speaking.
Just like you said, we can’t take back our words once they’ve been spoken. To be honest and speak our feelings is okay when done in the right way. But as you brilliantly pointed out – our words become the bullets that can always be used against us in many situations if we’ve used our words for harm. It’s very difficult to undo ‘stupid.’ Speaking with grace and love, even when hurt, or simply refraining from speaking until the emotional storm has passed changes a LOT.
Much love to you, dear one. God bless you for sharing this wonderful truth! ♥
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Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your valuable feedback, Holly. Our tongue is beautiful but the words that come from our mind makes or mars us and we lose our loved ones for life. We need to be expanding love and happiness to everyone with our loving words. Thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️
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Great post and a great reminder to use our words wisely and with kindness. One of my favourite sayings is “If your words were tattooed on your skin, would you be beautiful?” Makes you think…….
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So very true Kamal and wise words indeed.
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Thanks 😊 😊 dear Miriam and I agree totally with your words.
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Wise advice, tho not always easy to do. So often, the best I could do was to simply keep my thoughts to myself & at these times, I was so glad I did…
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True and that is what needs to be done at times with our words that can hurt or make good too. Thanks so much for your valuable words, da-AL
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Great message. Words can cause harm – think twice before speaking.
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Thanks 😊 😊 Bernice for your valuable feedback. I completely agree with you. Words r very powerful we need to use them wisely
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I totally agree with you Kamal. It has been said many times that words cut deeper than wounds yet for many times we all seemed to neglect that and for many times too, relationships have been destroyed and broken because of the words we utter.
If only we can be more mindful of what we say..
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Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your valuable feedback, Mich. Words are very powerful we need to be able to know when to speak what and not hurt anyone. Thanks a lot 😊😊😊
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Wonderful message! Life is easy when we control the strongest muscle of our body. 🙂
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Thanks Megala and I agree totally with your words. Life is beautiful when we allow things to be the way they are.😊😊😊😊😊
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Wonderful message! Definitely one that we all need to practice.
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Thanks Lisa and yes I completely agree with your words.
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You are so right we need to be watching our words more
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Yes absolutely true and that is what words r for to use them properly and not hurt anyone. Thanks so much Denise.😊😊😊😊
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My dear Kamal
Thanks for sharing this wisdom 🙂
Indeed, wise men advise us to think twice before we release any words that we never can take back. Wrongly words used as well as the wrong intonation, music of the words, focussing on hurting people in rage and anger, coloured by ego and mind – can be like tsunamis: effects, ripples of it can be like huge waves reaching heart and feelings, even after many years. Once the water has run through the bridge, it does not come back to enable new opportunities. Therefore, we should start to control our thoughts, because from good thoughts good words will spring off, good deeds as well. So we have to develop physically, intellectually, and spiritually. There should always be a balance between them. When we really understand the term: Oneness that we all are one in the One, we will surely widen our horizon and give less attention to our ego as the One resides in every heart – then we can start praising and honouring God in each person, even in each animal and plant and wheresoever the life-impulse is available. Then we do not see anymore the evil and bad things in others but the good things and the knowledge by heart and head that there is God in everyone, then we see in each person, a brother and sister in Him…
Time to be aware of our mind, its thousand tricks, its ego-centered character – time and live and do for others and to live for God in this connection.
With dirty clothes we cannot enter the kingdom of God…
So thank you, my dear friend 🙂
Hugs and love
Didi
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Time to be aware today in our times what to say or not to say and not hurt anyone but stop and reflect and then say in a benevolent and nice way. Things can work better and in a humane way. Life is so beautiful but we have made it complicated with our words. The day we all realize that God is in everything and everyone then our world will be a wonderful place to live the way our God wishes. Thanks a trillion dearest friend. Love and light to you 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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Welcome, dear Kamal 🙂
A spiritual avalanche, revolution is on its way… Maybe we will not experience that big change anymore – but when our children and grandchildren have the chance to enjoy a better world, then all fights for a better world, are not in vain.
Much love and many hugs
Didi
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Yes Didi God knows what he is doing and as he says this whole world is my creation and you and I r not we but one so leave everything to Him. His grace is with all of us. He has created many worlds and destroyed many worlds this is his game of imagination and as he says we r all dreaming have never come and will never come. All an illusion.
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Yes, my friend – because only He is existing – the rest is Maya, a great illusion… just a dream…
Hugs and love, dear friend
Didi
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Yes absolutely true. Hugs and love to you too. One more thing Didi when u r free try reading my latest poem on two boxes which I received from a friend of mine. It is all about God’s blessings and mercy.
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Alright, dear friend – sometime later I will do so 🙂
Hugs and love, dear Kamal 🙂
Didi
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PL take your time dear Didi 🙏🙏🙏🙏
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Yes, thank you, my friend 🙂
Warm regards
Didi
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Warm regards to you too 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
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Yes, people can often use words and believe that they have no meaning ❤ But words are extremely powerful 😊 It is important to always think before we speak. Spread love and kindness x x
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Yes absolutely true Capili and we need to be watching our words Everytime. Thanks so much for your kind words ❤️❤️❤️
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Wonderful post and very true!
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Thanks so much Sarah.
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Wise and thoughtful words, Kamal!
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Thanks for your kind words, Bette 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
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No wonder the enlightened prefer to remain silent and speak only when something is asked of them. Lovely post dear Kamal!
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Yes so true Sunith they know when to speak and they do not like to speak unnecessary how we people use our tongues just like that. Thanks for your valuable feedback 😊👍😊👍
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