Based on a True Story:
A lady in a faded grey dress and her husband, dressed in a home-spun suit walked in timidly without an appointment into the Harvard University President’s outer office. The secretary could tell in a moment that such backwoods, country hicks had no business at Harvard and probably did not even deserve to be in Harvard. ‘We want to see the President’ the man said softly. ‘He’ll be busy all day’ the secretary snapped. ‘We’ll wait’ the lady replied politely.
For hours the secretary ignored them, hoping that the couple would finally become discouraged and go away. They did not and the secretary grew frustrated and finally decided to disturb the President. ‘Maybe if you see them for a few minutes, they’ll leave’ she said to him. The President, stern faced and with dignity, strutted towards the couple. The lady told him, ‘We had a son who attended Harvard for one year. He loved Harvard. He was happy here. But about a years ago, he was accidentally killed. My husband and I would like to erect a memorial to him, somewhere on the campus’
The President wasn’t touched. In fact, he was shocked. ‘Madam’ he said gruffly, ‘we can’t put up a statue for every person who attended Harvard and died. If we did, this place would look like a cemetery.’ ‘Oh, no,’ the lady explained quickly. ‘We don’t want to erect a statue. We thought we would like to give a building to your Harvard in his fond memory.’ The President rolled his eyes. He glanced at the gingham dress and homespun suit and then explained, ‘A building!!!! Do you have any earthly idea how much a building costs? We have over seven and half million dollars in the physical buildings here at Harvard.’
For a moment the lady was silent. The President was pleased. Maybe he could get rid of them now. The lady turned to her husband and said quietly, ‘Is that all its costs to start a university? Why don’t we just start our own?’ He husband nodded. The President’s face wilted in confusion and bewilderment. Mr. and Mrs. Leland Stanford got up and walked away, traveling to Palo Alto, California where they established the University that bears their name, Stanford University, a memorial to a son that Harvard no longer cared about.
Most of the time we judge people by their outer appearance, which can be misleading. And in this impression, we tend to treat people badly by thinking they can do nothing for us. Thus we tend to lose our potential good friends, employees or customers forever.
Remember: In our life, we seldom get people with whom we want to share and grow our thought process. But because of our heavy headed EGOs’ we miss them forever.
Life is really very simple and beautiful. What we Give Out, We Get Back. The Gateway to Wisdom & Knowledge are always Open………
Whoa, the elite universities shared such a history..
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It’s always a pleasure to read these stories.
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Yes even I had not known that such a great University had this history behind them and look what they have done an awesome University. This story shows how one must not have egos by the appearances of people. Thanks dear Harsh.
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So true, appearances are, if not always, often deceptive. Even though our eyes tend to filter out one’s personality out of their appearances, we could always open our heart to the real person beneath the colours of the skin. 🙂
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Thanks for sharing this story, Di! Have a great day!
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Welcome dear Harsh always and yes appearances are so deceptive but this was what was going to be unfolded in their lives and they did a much better job and made such a great University. How are you why don’t you share your beautiful stories or poems on your blog if you have the time for few days.
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I am doing good! And yes, I really look forward to joining back here, for the time being I am just going back to the places (comments sections) where I used to talk endlessly, haha
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I am glad you look forward to my work, means a lot to me. I will surely write something. 🙂 Thank you so much.
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Hahaha so nice and do have a wonderful holiday and enjoy dear Harsh and when in the mood do some writing. Have a great day. Welcome always.
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Beautifully penned and heart warming message, boundlessblessings,
unfortunately this seems to be the kind of society that we are living in today,
or perhaps I had never noticed this before.
I loved that happy ending. Thank you for warming my heart.
Hugs
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Thanks and welcome for your great feedback and yes I agree totally with your valuable words. We have become so Egoist and think so bad about people. But this was good cause they could make such a lovely University.
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True that Kamal. Appearances are very deceptive.
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Yes absolutely true Radhika and look what happened. We and our Ego’s and see people so differently. Thanks so much dear.
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so true dear Kamal, thank you for (yet again) another lovely post.
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Welcome and thank you Cathy for your kind words.
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Have a great Weekend my dear. Blessings 🙂
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Thanks dear Cathy and same to you too.
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Thanks for sharing such moments that educate us how to look at life and people!!
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Welcome and thank you Sunith even I did not know the story behind such a great University. Egos and look what they do to people and their lives.
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So true dear Kamal
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Thanks Sunith
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So true and beautiful reading. The world is such that they will treat you with how you appear from your clothes. A hollow world where appearance matter more than character and nature of a person.
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Yes dear Tanvir and I totally agree with your words. Egoistic world and we judge people from their appearances. No matter how the person is we need to see him as a Human instead of begrading him. Good one way look what an awesome University. Thank you so much dear for your valuable inputs.
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My pleasure and feel great to get the opportunity to read your beautiful lessons of life
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Thanks dear Tanvir and likewise you too are such an inspiring writer. Keep it up. Happy Holi to you and your family for yesterday.
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Thank you Kamal and wishing the same to you and to your family 😊
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Welcome dear Tanvir.
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Thank you for another inspirational story dear Kamal! The ego always likes to judge even by exterior appearances and passing judgement before all the facts are known. Let us be humble to remember this lesson 🙂 ❤
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Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your words, Amira and such a great story on how our ego gets inflated and so good that they could build a great university in their sons name. Thanks dear Amira so much
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Thank you Kamal for this beautiful and wise story. First, I love learning how Stanford University came to be. It is both amusing and deep.
The big Ego looking down on the simply dressed couple who then clearly tell
themselves their solution to build a memory for their son. Tell it clearly in the President’s presence.
A momentous lesson for him and for us all.
Miriam
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Yes and so nice to see such people getting their own piece of nonsense back and true I too never knew about the history behind this university. Thanks for the valuable comments.
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What a very poignant and inspiring message. Loved this story.
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Thanks dear Miriam for your kind words.
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That’s so interesting…Sure we cannot judge people by their appearances.Thank you for sharing Kamal😁😁😁
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Welcome and thanks for the beautiful comment Shahz.
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You’re most welcome Kamal.
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Thanks Shahz
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😊😊😊
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What a powerful message Kamal. I wonder what was said in Harvard when they found they had shot themselves in the foot?
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Yes and even I felt nice when they snubbed him he deserved it and look what history changed for them and what a great university that too. Thanks for the beautiful comment, Brigid.
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Wow truly a surprising and magnificent story.. If only we would start judging people by the beauty of their souls instead of their appearance❤
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Yes our world would be a better place for all to live without judgement. Thanks for your kind words
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Wow! This story is amazing, Kamal, and conveys such an important lesson for us all! Indeed, arrogance and condescending attitudes end up costing people far more than they gain in the end. No wonder the kingdom of heaven is said to belong to the humble and lowly in spirit. Thank you for this, dear Kamal!
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Yes dear Jonathan and I absolutely agree with your valuable words. Egos will never take us anywhere it will take us to our doom. I too never knew this awesome story. Good that Principal got his answer. Thanks dear for your great comments.
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This is an amazing story, Kamal. Thank you for sharing it.
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Welcome dear Robbie.
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Wonderful story Kamal. Even better that it’s true and reminds us to not judge by appearances.
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Yes absolutely true Brad and why must we judge people and why. A great story on this university. Thanks dear for your great comments.
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Wonderful example for not to judge a person by their appearance.
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Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your words and this story is all about not judging anyone no matter what. Thanks so much Megala.
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Most welcome!
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Thanks.
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What an outstanding story and complimentary thoughts….of course coming from you, dear Kamal…yahoo!
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Thanks dear Zaza for your great comments. Indeed these stories are eye openers.
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A sweet story indeed. I love it so much I read it twice and shared with my wife. I agree with the lesson. Do you have any idea what this great couple was? Were they business magnets? Or was the man a former president or something?
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Great to hear that Romilia and this story was really powerful and inspiring that so nice of them to open another University and snubbed the Principal of Harvard. I too really appreciated loved the story. No I dont know how prominent they were and what were they doing but only their names have been given. If you google search maybe you will come to know. Thanks so much for these valuable feedback.
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I actually went in search of more information about Leland Stanford and wife. Leland Stanford was a railroad magnate, one time Governor of California and Senator. Again thanks for sharing the story.
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K maybe in the story they must have given fake names. Let me see who were the owners of Stanford University. Welcome Romilia and thanks for this information.
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In the story the names are correct but some people think that the facts may not be entirely correct.
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K some people must have fabricated these stories too but overall a great message on how our egos make us so foolish and we do not care for other people and hurt them.
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That is right. The lesson is what matters. I also feel that the university President who put up poor behavior in the story and the entire university would not want the story to be believed as authentic and so might be the source of the thoughts that discredit it.
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Yes so true and maybe that may be the reason that they would not want to tell a true story. The lesson of not judging anyone is what matters the most nothing else.
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Truth.
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Thanks
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Your story was an excellent reminder…about life. I once had a boss that said …everyone no matter how they look …treat them with respect. They will all pay with the same money…and we want them to return over and over again. and it’s true..if someone in a store or restaurant I feel has disrespected me or my friends..I always vow to put my money somewhere else.
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Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your valuable feedback. Ego has this habit of always judging people wrongly. Thanks so much.
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Tremendous post, though I read a lot. But still, I was unaware of this incident.
Initially, I was so disheartened to know how emotionless people are here.
But then It’s life, we can’t expect everyone to be good.
The words of wisdom you have shared will forever imprint in my mind. Looking forward to read more everyday!
More more love to you! ❤
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In fact, saved this indirect relation between Harvard & Stanford!
My heart goes to his parents!!! 😻
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Yes I totally agree with your words, and so nice to see another University which too is superb. Thanks dear for your great feedback.
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Thanks dear Sudershana for your valuable comments and I too agree totally with your words. How egos play so much nonsense in our lives and we unnecessary judge people so wrongly based on their clothes. This story really opens our eyes. Love and hugs to you too dear
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You are so right, you are the one who has all the wisdom, our egos can trick us into destroying our lives
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No Denise we all have wisdom and knowledge but these stories help us to know how to use our egos in a positive way.
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thanks for pointing that out, there are so many lessons to learn in life
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Yes absolutely true and these stories that I read I love to put up with our blogger friends so that we too get inspired and encouraged by them and how to live in our lives.
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I like that
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Thanks.
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Great story serves the pompous jerks right!
Never judge a book by it’s cover, see what’s inside first 🙂
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Yes dear absolutely true and why judge anyone and nice that pompous guy got snubbed in his face. Thanks Kate
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so enjoy your story telling Kamal, thanks!
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Welcome dear Kate.
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Unfortunately and sometimes unknowingly we all judge people in the same way…
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Yes I so agree totally with your words, Deeksha. Thanks so much.
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Very touching 🙂
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Thanks.
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I love this story, and it left me damn near speechless. So, I had to go fact check it, and its not true, but I do love the strong message. “Do not judge a person, based on appearance”
https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/wont-stanford-it/
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Yes absolutely true and agree totally with your words and this is a true story on Stanford University and what egos can do. Good he was snubbed by them. Thanks so much.
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What you say is very true. It’s far too easy to jump to the wrong conclusion. 🙂
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Yes absolutely true.
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Great story with an important lesson to learn. I think we prejudge others without listening to them first.
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Yes I absolutely agree with your words, Marta and judge people unnecessary. Good that Principal was snubbed and they went to create another great University.
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😀🙏😊 Thank you very much for following my site. ❤ God bless you.
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Welcome always and thanks to you too for doing the same. Have a pleasant day.
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👦❤😃
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Thanks.
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inspiring & true – many tx for sharing 🙂
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The story is not true, but the message is.
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If that is what you feel.
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Such a profound and important message in such simple terms. Bravo and thanks.
insightful.co.in
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Thanks for the beautiful comment.
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Good One!
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Thanks
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Excellent and appropriate for today’s times! Thanks for sharing.
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Welcome and yes absolutely true and agree totally with your words.
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Totally agree on this .ego should be a complete no no . Here is my take on this https://sunniesmybunnies.wordpress.com/2019/05/03/5-tips-to-keep-disagreements-healthy/
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Thank you and yes egos should be a complete no and no. Will have a look at your post.
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Great looking forward
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Thanks I have already commented Nidhi.
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